As soon as i read your name The best thing about this site knew you were an Aussie, i agree with your sentiments regarding dating sites, they're about as barren as some pubs are these days If their is a particular reason why your marriage ended, reflect on it honestly so you can communicate it to a new woman who comes into your life.
This can avoid besides that fact awkwardness of a one-on-one with someone you've never met before and is a great ice-breaker. Lot of guys of looking for someone to actually date, and you aren't that person. I asked the guy that helps me with my Online Dating and he said to send No more than two messages that four is too many.
And you ladies that look so good in your photographs are just absolutely narcissistic and hideous with the way you speak to us. At this point I have sent out well thought out messages, in other words one a night for over three months on average. When my profile ends, that will be it for this lady.
Where Hinge may fall short is the fact that it pretty much caters to young people only, while OkCupid is more wide-ranging. Then there are the guys who say they they want to meet and "just cuddle" at your place or theirs on the first date.